Take It Easy Monday Blue

我不记得这是什么时候写的,是不是我写的,在draft里面我就随手点了post immediately。

 

There are many blue colors, Alice blue, cornflower blue and Monday blue.

Sometimes, I found very difficult to communicate with people. Isn’t it told that good employee should try to argue less and work more? I am trying, but for many times, I wish I could have printed out an electrocardiogram to show you all how I was feeling.

I’m feeling very okay, so please take it easy.

Though you have offered a job to someone that is just as good as me, then blame the delay of every subcontractor on me. Am I furious about any decision whoever has made which is unfair to me? Am I arguing that the vendor and subcontractors who are giving up on your project are your old friend’s old friend? Yes, it is your project, not mine. I have tried my best to keep my part making progress, but what did you do with this? Any helping hand or valuable suggestions from you?

That’s why, I won’t say any congratulations to the one who took the job and asked me to be cool, told me that I shouldn’t compare myself with him in the first place. He is elder, with higher degrees, and more experienced. And he is a “he”, take that as another advantage. I graduated two years ago from a way better university than his, and speak better English, and dare to take the responsibility and work as a man though I am a girl.

I won’t say congratulations not because I am jealous of the opportunity. The reason is that I don’t think it will be a blessing thing to work with a boss like this. All the best, that’s all I manage to say.

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Why does feedback hurt sometimes?

The Thesis Whisperer

This letter was written by an experienced academic at ANU to her PhD student, who had just presented his research to a review panel and was still licking her wounds.

The student sent it to me and I thought it was a great response I asked the academic in question, and the student who received it, if I could publish it. I wish all of us could have such nuanced and thoughtfu feedback during the PhD. I hope you enjoy it.

Screen Shot 2014-02-05 at 7.27.05 PMA letter to…My PhD student after her upgradeWell you did it. You got your upgrade. But from the look on your face I could tell you thought it was a hollow victory. The professors did their job and put the boot in. I remember seeing that look in the mirror after my own viva. Why does a win in academia always have the sting of defeat?

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哪个我

你记忆里的 是哪一个我

可爱的脆弱的别扭的奇奇怪怪的

短发的长发的年轻的渐渐变老的

我害怕小狗但是你可能不知道

我非常非常喜欢读小说

我有时人缘很好有时很糟

我有时成绩很好有时很糟

我有时会很健忘有时又很怀旧

我喜欢画画

我有时容易难过有时特别爱笑

你梦里的

是哪个我